The first Passover seder with baby is a special moment. There are lots of holiday foods that you can share with baby—and some to avoid. Read on for tips for how to include baby in the holiday, from matzah ball soup to kugel.
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Bring baby to the table. Place baby on your lap, or if you are using a high chair, remove the tray from the high chair and bring the chair right up to the table. This way, baby can be part of the family celebration. If you are a guest, ask your host if it would be possible to place the high chair in a spot that is out of the way of foot traffic. This way, any discarded (or thrown) food is not under foot in a main pathway.
Offer breast milk or formula before your meal begins. This way, baby comes to the table with energy to engage with the family and explore solid food—and without too much hunger.
Modify hard-boiled eggs for baby. The dry, chalky yolk and firm, slippery egg whites can be challenging for young babies to move around in the mouth on their own. Cut-up the egg into bite-sized pieces for babies around 9 months of age who have a developing pincer grasp (where the tips of the thumb and pointer finger meet) and let them practice picking up the pieces. To minimize the risk of choking for younger babies, peel, finely chop, and smash the hard-boiled egg with soft, scoopable food like yogurt.
Manage your expectations. Big celebratory meals can be overwhelming for babies, which can impact how much they explore and eat at mealtime. Focus on the experience and the memories—not consumption of solid food.
Offer some of your meal with baby. It is okay to offer an asparagus spear, a strip of braised lamb, or a piece of whatever you are eating at the table. Read on for how to modify common holiday dishes.
Remove any choking hazards. While most foods can be modified for baby’s age and eating ability, many popular holiday foods pose an increased risk of choking, such as candy, dried fruits, whole nuts and nut clusters, and whole olives. Remove choking hazards from portions of the meal that are offered to baby.
Prioritize food safety basics. To minimize the risk of foodborne illness, do not offer raw or undercooked proteins, like smoked salmon, gravlox, and lox to baby. Make sure to avoid any foods that contain honey for babies under 12 months, such as tzimmes and honey cake. Also be mindful of freshness; in general, do not offer food to baby if it has been sitting at room temperature for more than 2 hours. Make sure to keep food and drinks that contain alcohol, such as haroseth, out of reach.
Don’t worry too much about sodium. A meal with higher-than-normal sodium is fine and won’t hurt baby. See Sodium & Babies for answers to common questions.
A taste of sugar is okay, too. It is okay to share your holiday sweets with baby as long as it does not contain choking hazards (such as candy, large whole seeds, pieces of nuts), alcohol, caffeine, or honey, which should be avoided before the first birthday due to the risk of infant botulism. See Sugar & Babies for more information.
Use a straw cup to minimize spills. If you haven’t taught baby how to use a straw, you can do it in less than one day. See Cup Drinking for quick tips and videos.
If you are a guest, mind the mess. Bring a splat mat (or two!), an extra set of clothes, all of the wipes, and baggies for soiled bibs and clothes.
Make sure to take all photos early, when everyone is happy and clean! A tired or hungry baby does not make for a cute photo.
Asparagus
Asparagus is a staple of spring and one of the first vegetables to be harvested in the growing season, which is probably why roasted asparagus is such a popular dish at Passover seders in the Northern Hemisphere. Offer whole cooked asparagus spears that have been cooked until soft (you can test for doneness by piercing with a fork). If you’d like to maximize consumption, slice cooked asparagus lengthwise and then chop and mix it into scoopable foods like mashed potatoes for baby.
Braised Lamb
Braised lamb can be a wonderful food for baby. This tender meat is full of flavor and important nutrients for baby’s growth and development—like protein, fat, and iron. Just make sure the lamb is fully cooked to 145 F (63 C). For babies 6 to 9 months of age, consider chopping and mixing the meat with mashed potatoes to scoop with spoons or hands. If baby has their pincer grasp and is able to pick up small pieces of food, serve shredded pieces of lamb for baby to self-feed.
Lamb Shank Bone
A large lamb shank bone can be a great resistive food teether for baby to explore. Baby won’t consume much, but simply grabbing, holding, and gumming the bone helps baby practice oral motor skills. Plus it keeps baby busy and gives you a breather at the table. To minimize the risk of choking, pick off the meat and any loose gristle, and check that the bone is sturdy with no loose "splinters" that could break off in baby's mouth. Avoid smaller bones that are thin as they can be sharper and more brittle.
Brisket
Beef brisket is a wonderful first meat for babies because it naturally falls apart into strands and shreds. An added bonus: tough cuts of meat like brisket are relatively simple to prepare in advance in a pressure cooker or slow cooker, plus the flavor deepens over time.
Chicken
Chicken is a potential choking risk for babies, but the meat can be cut in an age-appropriate way to share with baby. You can also save the drumstick bone to offer as a resistive food teether for baby to grab, hold, and practice moving in and around the mouth while you eat. Not only does the bone help baby’s brain make a mental map of the mouth, baby may teethe on it for quite a while, which might make it possible for you to finish your own meal.
Chopped Liver
Chicken liver may be introduced as soon as a baby is ready to start solids, which is generally around 6 months of age. Keep in mind that chicken liver has a ton of vitamin A—an essential nutrient that can be toxic when consumed in excess. For this reason, take care to limit the serving size and frequency; 1 to 2 tbsp (15 to 30 ml) of chicken liver is plenty.
Fish
From herring to gefilte fish, there are many preparations of fish that can be shared with baby at the family table. Make sure to remove all bones and skin to minimize the risk of choking, and make sure the fish is thoroughly cooked to 145 F (63 C). Take care with smoked salmon, gravlax, and lox a they pose a higher risk of foodborne illness, to which babies and young toddlers are more susceptible. Avoid raw or undercooked fish for babies and young children.
Hard-Boiled Egg
Egg is a key symbol on the seder plate, and it is most often hard-boiled. The dry, chalky yolk and firm, slippery egg whites can be challenging for young babies to move around in the mouth on their own. Cut-up the egg into bite-sized pieces for babies around 9 months of age who have a developing pincer grasp (where the tips of the thumb and pointer finger meet) and let them practice picking up the pieces. To minimize the risk of choking for younger babies, peel, finely chop, and smash the hard-boiled egg with soft, scoopable food like soft, scoopable food like mashed beets or potatoes. And don’t be afraid of offering seasoning the mashed with strong spices! Babies are wonderful little explorers when it comes to bold flavors.
Horseradish
When it comes to horseradish, start with a small amount and taste it before offering it to baby. Horseradish can be full of zing! To help balance the spicy flavor, offer it to baby with a cooling food, such as sour cream or yogurt.
Matzah
Crackers like matzah are a high choking risk for babies and young toddlers. To minimize the risk of choking, soak matzah in water, mashed vegetables, or egg until soft.
Matzah Balls
Matzah balls are a wonderful food for babies. Just make sure the ball you select has cooled. Cutting in half will make it easier for baby to self-feed. If baby takes a too-big bite that makes you nervous, stay calm and coach baby to spit it out.
Parsley
You can let baby explore parsley from the seder plate or yours. Flecks of parsley and other fresh herbs are safe for baby, and they will be easier to manage in the mouth if they are blended into mashed potatoes or other soft, scoopable foods.
Potato Kugel
Kugel is a fantastic dish to share with baby. Soft, easily mashable and relatively easy for baby to practice eating. Just make sure to remove any crispy bits to minimize the risk of choking. Note that kugel typically contains egg and dairy, the two most common food allergens in babies.
Pot Roast
As long as there was no honey used in the recipe, baby can share the pot roast as long as the meat is cut into age-appropriate sizes. For babies 6 to 8 months, a large strip about the size of two adult fingers pressed together will be best.or babies who can pick up small pieces of food with a developed pincer grasp (typically 9 months and older), shredded or minced pot roast can work well.
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